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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Tips to Be an Awesome Husband

Tips to Be an Awesome Husband | Here i wanna shared with you all about tip to be an awesome husband .Though I realize that husbands reading this likely are already awesome, I offer these tips as a marriage coach. Use them to go from great to glorious in seven easy steps.

TIP 1: Do Not Talk To Her As If She Is One of The Guys.
Listen to guy buddies talk about anything for more than five minutes and you likely will hear one of them let the other know that he is an idiot. When men talk with their male friends, they tend to be direct or even argumentative. They share their opinions freely and bluntly. They jokingly insult each other. They blast anything the other guy says that they do not like or agree with. They rarely stop to think, "Am I being insensitive? Could I possibly be hurting his feelings?" The guy code is to let the chips fall where they may.
Women are NOT like that.
If a husband talks with his wife in the same manner he talks with his buddies, his directness, bluntness, or argumentativeness may well cause her to feel disrespected or controlled. He thinks he is being honest and forthright. She feels he is being a jerk.
If you really want to be a better husband, understand that women speak a different language. Unless you learn to speak that language, you will never communicate on the deeper levels with her.
TIP 2: Make Sure That She Does Not Perceive You As Controlling.
The most common complaint we hear from women in our workshops for marriages in crisis is that their husbands try to control them. Interestingly, the husband usually counters with his view that she is the controlling one.
Eyes open and behavior changes only when each person realizes that his or her motive is NOT the most important thing; it is what the other person perceives that matters. In marriages in which the man actually is controlling, he typically has no clue that he is because that is not his conscious intent. By speaking his mind, criticizing her when she does not comply with his thinking, and arguing with her to get his point across, he believes he is treating her well. There is no motive to hurt. He may actually believe his intent is to help.
Many wives finally give up and give in when that happens. The husband may think he convinced her to view things his way. Most of the time, it is anything but that. Tired of the conflict and feeling she is being treated as an inferior, she yields simply to stop the conflict. That builds resentment within her and with time, resentment detonates. In a non-published survey of married couples done in 2008, 21% of wives stated that their satisfaction with their husbands as a mate had decreased because he is controlling, disrespectful, and argues.
To make sure your wife does NOT feel that you control her, concentrate on her feelings about what you say and do. If she genuinely feels that you treat her as your equal, you are doing it correctly.
TIP 3: Romance Is What She Really Wants.
In the same survey referred to above, 27% of wives stated that their level of sexual satisfaction had decreased because their husbands were not romantic, and that sex had become routine and boring.
While humans – both male and female – have need for sexual fulfillment, it appears that men may be more satisfied by the frequency of sex, but women may be more satisfied by the emotional relationship in sex. To be a better husband, think about becoming a Don Juan for your wife. Court her. Think of new and different scenarios that PRECEDE your sexual interaction. Make her feel wonderful about herself and make sex exciting not just by technique, but also by touching her heart first.
TIP 4: Listening Is The Key To Her Heart.
Few people – men or women – feel that anyone truly listens to them. If you wish to change the way your wife perceives you, increase her sexual satisfaction, and become in her mind the best man on earth, listen to her.
That means that you do not interrupt her with your stories, your thoughts on what she just said, or by changing the subject. Listen to her heart as well as her words. As she talks ask yourself, "What is she feeling as she tells me this?" Even more importantly, ask yourself, "What is the message she really wants me to hear?" Once she knows that you are genuinely interested in her views, thoughts, and feelings, you can actually ask her those questions. However, do NOT ask them until you know that she knows that you are trying to understand her, not correct her.
This one thing can change you into a better husband in one month: Each day spend at least a half-hour just listening to your wife talk. Turn off the TV, cellphones, and radios. Find a place where there are no distractions, including interruptions from your children. Look directly into her eyes, and then ask a couple questions to get her started. Comment only if she asks, or if you want better to understand something she just said. Show her that you enjoy hearing her talk, no matter how trivial the subject, because it helps you understand her better and love her more.
TIP 5: Time Matters.
The old adage – which is not that old – that "quality time is more important than quantity of time" is ridiculous. Allowing work, hobbies, or other interests to keep you from spending time with your wife will, with time, deaden emotions.
You may have heard "absence makes the heart grow fonder." From my experience with thousands of couples, I think the more accurate axiom is "absence makes the heart grow fonder for someone else."
Make time just for the two of you. It will not happen if you do not make it happen. Plan it and do it.
TIP 6: Be Her Support, Not Her Father.
The next time your wife comes home complaining about how someone treated her, do NOT tell her what she should have done, tell her what she should do, or offer to go deal with the problem yourself. Instead, listen, understand what she feels, and then give her the "poor baby."
The "poor baby" is just what it sounds like. Let her know she has a right to feel hurt and that you are sorry it happened to her.
Unless she asks your opinion, or asks you to deal with the problem, do NOT offer to do so. You are not her father; you are her husband. Treat her as your equal. If she complains about a situation, your job is to listen, let her know you are on HER side (even if you think she did not handle things correctly, or that it was her fault) and that you are always there to support her. More than likely, she wants to forget the incident, but she needs validation that she has a right to feel hurt or angry. Give it to her.
TIP 7: Keep Growing.
No husband or wife reaches perfection in his or her roles. There will be plenty of times throughout your marriage when you will make mistakes, say the wrong thing, or leave your dirty underwear lying on the bedroom floor. It happens to the best of husbands. But it is important to not let those moments of blunders define your marriage. Use every opportunity you can to continue to grow closer to your wife and learn more about her wants, needs, desires, and aspirations. Keep learning and growing. Just like a fine wine or aged cheese, marriage gets better over the years.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014


TOP 10 CUTE NICKNAMES FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND 2014 | Hello to all my fellow friend im so proud because you enter to my blog. Today i want share with you some information about cute nicknames for you boyfriend 2014 , i hope you all happy and i hope you share this entry with your friend ok.

Looking to find a cute nickname to call your boyfriend with? Here's our list of the top 10 names that most men would love.

Most popular cute nicknames guys love to be called with:

Here is a list to top 10 cute nicknames your boyfriend would love to be called with. 

1.) Handsome, Good looking or Sexy: These names would light any guy's day as they give him an assurance that you find him handsome and attractive. 

2.) Ace or Chief: Is your boyfriend asking you to do something for him? What better way to respond than to call him the 'Chief'? 

3.) Movie Star, Hero, Superstar, Superman, Tarzan: Goes without saying that every one wants to be a movie star. Give him the feel of it by using this nickname. 

4.) Big guy: Would suit perfectly if your boyfriend is tall and well built 

5.) Snuggleable, Cuddles, Cuddly Bear or Honey Bear : This is a cute nickname to tell a man that you love to be close to him all the time. 

6.) Hot Chocolate, Hot Lips or Hot Stuff: A perfect cute nick name for any tall, dark and handsome man. Irrespective of these traits, any man would love to hear the word hot chocolate coming their girlfriend. 

7.) Honey, Love, Lover, My Beloved, My Life, My World, Soul Mate, Lifemate: Tell your man that you find him sweet and attractive by using any of these nicknames. Great way to say that he is the man. 

8.) Tiger: Any guy would love to hear his girl calling him tiger. The word tiger is synonymous with power which men love to have. If you can make a male feel important, the man is yours for the taking. 

9.) Hunk, Hunky, Stud, Super Stud, Playboy, Romeo or Dirty Boy: Not used very often, but any man would love to get this nickname from his girl. After all what could be more flattering than the fact that you consider him a stud? 

10.) My Prince, Prince Charming or King: Adorable nickname for your boyfriend that gives a sense of power. 

Here are a few more romantic and cute boyfriend nicknames suggested by our readers: 

Juicy Fruit, Honey-Buns, Honey Bear, Adorable, Amazing, Cuddle Cakes, Huggy Bear, Honey Pants, Heart Throb, Looker, Love Muffin, Lover Boy, My Boo, My Sweet Boy, My World, Perfect, Soldier, Soul Mate, Teady Bear, Sweetum, Super Stud, Sugams, Brad Pitt, Knockout, Poppins, Mickey, Hugster, Tiggy, Jellybear, Jocky, Raunchy, Teddy, Lollipop, Bam-bam, Dada, Cotton Candy, Gummybear, Hunk, Bigboy

Sunday, December 22, 2013

Cute love quotes for her

I just want to stay by you day and night. The best feeling I get is when I see your face early morning and when I dream about you by night.
~ Karla Kinsey

Your cute smile and your happy laughter attracted me to you, but your caring loving heart is the reason why I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
~ Lana Dudley

cutest love quotations, cute lovely sayings
Cute love quotes for her
The day I met you I knew that this was not going to be just for a day. I knew that I will see your sweet face every day, that I will know you and live with you for the rest of my life.
~ Kristi Hansel

If today I die, I will be at peace because I have known
my soul mate and have understood the true meaning of love.
~ Lora Joseph

I love you and why should I care for what people say about you? No matter what they say, I know that satisfying everyone every time is impossible but pissing them is so much FUN.
~ Marisa Point

Even though I found you on an ordinary day, it felt like I found a precious pearl in an oyster when I deep dived into the sea. Baby, you are really that precious to me.
~ Fiona Torrent

I used to be lonely, waiting for the right person to come by and love me and then you came like the morning star, bright as ever...loving as only you could ever have.
~ Lynette Warren

Your love has changed me so very much. People say I am a different person now. I guess when you fall in love, everything changes.
~ Paula Street

You came like the night thief. Bloomed in my heart like the red rose and I want you to light up my life like the
morning sun.
~ Saffron Lumber

I fell for you in a heart beat because you are such a sweetheart.
Though I fell so easily missing you is is the toughest part.
That is why I have locked you as priority and only you have the keys to my heart.
~ Wayne Macy

We all automatically close our eyes when we experience something beautiful like a happy dream or an intimate kiss. These days, whenever I close my eyes all I see is YOU!
~ Tara Fantastic

There is a story behind every little emotion that a person experiences in life. You are the most beautiful story behind the emotion of love in my heart.
~ Winnie Kings

There is not enough that I can write about you, but I want to end this page by saying that I really, glaringly and daringly love you.
~ Sophia Pacey

10 Beautiful Words About Love That Don’t Exist in English

1. Mamihlapinatapei (Yagan, an indigenous language of Tierra del Fuego): The wordless yet meaningful look shared by two people who desire to initiate something, but are both reluctant to start.
2. Yuanfen (Chinese): A relationship by fate or destiny. This is a complex concept. It draws on principles of predetermination in Chinese culture, which dictate relationships, encounters and affinities, mostly among lovers and friends.
3. Cafuné (Brazilian Portuguese): The act of tenderly running your fingers through someone’s hair.
4. Retrouvailles (French):  The happiness of meeting again after a long time.
5. Ilunga (Bantu): A person who is willing to forgive abuse the first time; tolerate it the second time, but never a third time.
6. La Douleur Exquise (French): The heart-wrenching pain of wanting someone you can’t have.
7. Koi No Yokan (Japanese): The sense upon first meeting a person that the two of you are going to fall into love.
8. Ya’aburnee(Arabic): “You bury me.” It’s a declaration of one’s hope that they’ll die before another person, because of how difficult it would be to live without them.
9. Forelsket: (Norwegian):  The euphoria you experience when you’re first falling in love.
10. Saudade (Portuguese): The feeling of longing for someone that you love and is lost. Another linguist describes it as a “vague and constant desire for something that does not and probably cannot exist.”

What Is True Love ?

  • True Love is Caring. The ancient Greeks had many different names for different forms of love: passion, virtuous, affection for the family, desire, and general affection. But no matter how love is defined, they all hold a common trait: caring.

  • True Love is Attractive. Attraction and chemistry form the bond that allows people to mate. Without this romantic desire for another individual, a relationship is nothing more than lust or infatuation.

  • True Love is Attached. Like the mother-child bond, attachment comes after the initial attraction. Attachment is the long term love that appears anywhere from one to three years into a romantic relationship (sometimes sooner and very rarely after), and you'll know you've found it when you can honestly say, "I've seen the worst and the best you have to offer, and I still love you," while your partner feels the same way.

  • True Love is Commited. When it comes to true love, commitment is more than just monogamy. Its the knowledge that your partner cares for you and has your back, no matter what the circumstances. People who are strongly commited to one another will, when faced with seemingly negative information about their partner, see only the positive. For example, a friend comments that your partner doesn't say a lot. "Ah yes, he's the strong, silent type," you reply. People with less commitment to their partner would instead say something like, "Yeah, I can never have conversation with him. Its annoying."

  • True Love is Intimate. Intimacy is a crucial component of all relationships, regardless of their nature. In order to know another, you need to share parts of yourself. This self-revealing behavior, when reciprocated, forms an emotional bond. Over time this bond strengthens and even evolves, so that two people merge closer and closer together. Intimacy by itself if is a great friendship, but compiled with the other things in this list, it forms an equation for true love.

Friday, October 25, 2013

You My Dear

When you keep silent and pensive,
I will come to accompany you ..
All that you want,
I'll fulfill, as hard and as best I ..
I will always be next to you
that is, a promise you faithfully for me ..

When the time comes, I have to go,
Thou shalt not grieve, and ..
Dropping your tears ..
Because it was all in vain ..
the last words you said to me ..
that makes my chest,
my heart is swayed by your words ..

I'm sad, staring at you ..
why did you leave me?
now, all that remains is memories ..
memories that could never forgotten ..

Although I could not see and touch you again ..
my love .. dear .. fixed for you.
goodbye my dear.

25 Romantic Ways To Say 'I Love You '

1. You, sweetheart, are my one and only.
2. You take my breath away.
3. Lovingly yours.
4. With you, forever won't be too long.
5. To the world's best wife!
6. When I see you, I think "Good job, God!"
7. You are the love of my life!
8. It's awesome to spend my life with you!
9. Love you, sweetheart!
10. I treasure you.
11. I adore you.
12. Sweetheart, you stir my soul!
13. I'm head over heels for you.
14. I cherish you.
15. You turn me on!
16. Life is incomplete without you.
17. To the one I love:
18. We were made for each other!
19. You're my soulmate and the love of my life.
20. You're one hot babe!

Romantic Love words 2013

Love words
Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.

Love wasn't put in your heart to stay
Love isn't love till you give it away 

There are 3 great things in this world
The first thing is for you to love someone
The second thing is for someone to love you back
And the third greatest thing is for the first and second thing to happen at the same time.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person
An hour to appreciate them
A day to love them
But then an entire life to forget them

Love is gentle
Love is kind
Love is when...
...two lives combine

Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me?

You can fall from the sky
You can fall from a tree
But the best way to fall
Is in love with me 

Minimizing the Impact of Divorce on Children

Divorce is tough on children -- and your children will likely be experiencing a barrage of emotions as they process their new reality. By reassuring your child with loving words, seeking to co-parent with your ex-spouse and provide stability and routine for your children, you can help them heal and minimize the negative impact of divorce on your children.

Avoid a Battle

  • Though it may be difficult, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) states on that parents should try to make their divorce as amicable as possible in order to ease the children's adjustment. When divorce proceedings become long and drawn-out, the ongoing conflict interferes with your children's ability to heal. Try to maintain open communication with your ex-spouse, seeking to make legal compromises -- especially when it comes to custody -- that are in the best interest of your children.

Talk About It

  • encourages parents to talk openly with their children about their divorce. Acknowledge their grief, anger, sadness or whatever other emotions they may be experiencing without trying to change their feelings. Reassure your children that the divorce was not their fault and is not an indicator of how you feel about them. If their anger and sadness results in social withdrawal or aggressive behavior, do not hesitate to contact a mental health professional.

    Respect the Other Parent

    • Show respect and consideration for your children's relationship with your ex-spouse. Be cordial to one another in front of your kids and be sure to include your ex in on events that your children would want him to attend -- such as graduations and sporting events. Don't speak ill of your ex to your children or in front of your children, lest they think you are trying to get them to take sides. Communicate directly with your ex rather than sending messages through your children.

    Provide Stability

    • Though divorce may bring with it major life changes for your children -- such as a move or a parent going back to work -- try to provide as much routine and predictability for your children as possible. Keep a consistent schedule for your kids whether they are spending time at your home or the home of your ex -- giving them a sense of calm amidst the chaos. Your children may feel unsettled going from one parent to the other, but knowing that they can expect dinner followed by homework followed by bedtime, for example, gives them feelings of stability.